A very small cause which escapes our notice
determines a
considerable effect that we cannot fail to see...
~ Poincaré (1903)
If you had asked me yesterday, what is the most important
thing that I have ever done in my life, I’m not sure how I would have
answered… I was a literacy tutor for
several years and I think I made a big difference in one student’s life in
particular. I think (I hope!) my ESL
classes help my students – both through teaching them vocabulary and grammar,
and through giving them encouragement and a safe environment to build their
language skills and their confidence. I
think I am making the difference in the lives of two children right now –
opening up a bit more of the world to them than their parents can afford to do
– providing singing lessons, video game designing lessons, and – perhaps most
important of all – being a constant in their lives, an adult who cares and
spends time with them and pays attention to them.
But recently an eFriend wrote to me and confided that a gift
I had sent her several years ago – an out-of-the-blue, for-no-particular-reason,
little friendship gift - made her postpone her plan to commit suicide. And one postponement led to another – and
eventually things got better in her life and she was able to put aside those
plans.
Wow! Never in a
million years would have I guessed that my small gesture might have such a
large impact in someone’s life. It’s
both wonderful and (to be honest) a little bit scary at the same time…
In recognition of this potential that each of us has, I am
going to start my own, personal “Human Chaos Project.” The idea is to do a better job sowing little
seeds of kindness... Realizing that many
may only bloom briefly, but some will become those “small causes” that PoincarĂ©
described over one hundred years ago, capable of determining “a considerable
effect.”
What’s the most important thing you've ever done in your
life? You may never know…